(Lightly)

So much sweaty talks going on about how sex should be done, who should do it and when they should do it. You even get some special sex-consultants telling you why you should or should not have sex. Google the word ‘sex’ and get 3.3 trillion web results staring you in the face, all in less than one second! The load of sex-related information is almost absurd until you realize, wait a minute Bob, sex is at the foundation of our human existence right? True. Okay then sex is an original topic since it concerns the origination of all human beings on Earth. Everyone has a right to an opinion but just how many of these are rooted in some real knowledge?

Sex and Earth

Sex isn’t really something people should sweat about but um, ah don’t misquote me on that one. Sex is nowhere on the list of the hardest things to understand. Sex is a basic animal function and like other acts, sex is governed by each human’s mind. Over the years, humans have been categorized based on their genders and sexual preferences. The entire sexual orientation of humankind has gone through some sort of bashing and back-lashing on every side. No doubts, there are those who profit from this chaotic sexual disorientation; a bloc whose business requires that humans stay low on their sexual intelligence. People speak of spatial, financial, social and emotional intelligence without considering the more important of them, sexual intelligence. I’d bet one kidney on it, not many people know a thing about sexual intelligence whereas sexual intelligence is the mother of all intelligences. People just don’t get it, no thanks to the peddlers of sex-scares who can’t imagine that a human’s freewill and rights must extend to the human’s sexual orifice.

(Seriously)

Sex begins in your mind. But beyond that, sex is an energetic exchange in which one party is sharing its living energy with the other. A gifting of one’s energetic field and a communion with the energetic field of the other person. That is sex. Practically. This definition is very basic and it works except for those who desire to complicate simple matters. Energetic exchange is what we all do when we work together as a people or when we work against one another. If someone screams at you, their energy comes hard at you and you’re either going to push back that energy or you’re going to take it into yourself which then goes into your heart and lives in there with you until you’re able to dissolve or project it expressively. But at that moment when the energy packet is thrown at you, it’s possible to let it slide by stepping away from its trajectory and this is what many people referred to as temperance. Duck it.

That people do not think of their daily communication activities as a simple matter of energetic exchange doesn’t make it any less so. For those who already recognize this constant energy exchanging reality, it helps them become more conscious and deliberate with the kind of energy they give to others. The enlightened mind knows the fact, “what I give is what I get” and “whatever I put out there stays out there, knocking on everyone’s personal space, seeking to gain entrance and if given the chance – knowingly or unknowingly – starts to color their world”.

Managing your sexual exchange is a much more serious topic than arguing about who you should have sex with or not. When its sexual exchange, we’re dealing with something so fundamentally powerful it can alter the course of a person’s life. Here, a dollar for everyone who doubts the fact that we have collectively created and allowed all the present situations that we have on Earth. We may not like the sound of it but we put those energies out there and we embrace them from others too. We all toss the bad energies around among ourselves without considering their consequences. Foolishness is our main problem, not immorality. Go hear the sanctimonious speeches of the preacher man and his fellow moralists, they make sex seem like something humans wouldn’t have had if humans were truly perfect. In fact, many consider sex a rather bad add-on and a divine mistake made by God. Think I’m just exaggerating? Go find some holy-ghost-folks out there and see how much they hate sex even in their marriages. You’d find a people who can’t even be seen naked by their spouses for they’re so ashamed of their own naked bodies they wish no one but God would ever have to see it.

Much of what we’ve read, heard or taught about sexual immorality on this planet is bollocks. It’s outright bad-energy. We’ve spread so much horseshit from generations to generations either through our genuine ignorance or through sheer obstinacy. Every now and then some creative idiot comes up with newer versions of the same old spineless beliefs about sex. If you want to see how ignorant a person truly is about sex, ask them to educate a seemingly younger group of people. It’s always a reverie, parroting whatever nonsense was passed down to them carelessly. While speaking to a group of married men and women, a sex consultant advised that couples practice anal sex for a more intense orgasm. He gave them all the scientific explanation about how the orgasmic spot is easier to reach through certain sex positions but guess what, the holy folks don’t want none of that part. I don’t either. Sex must be discussed as a means of exchanging our energies. This is the only way we can truly arrive at true meaningful understanding of sex by which we may formulate a new definition of what may be sexually moral or sexually immoral.

(Sexual Immorality)

Mind is the animated aspect of the human spirit. Mind is responsible for every action – internalized and externalized – that we perform. Without mind, there could be no creation in the material form as we know it. Matter is rooted in mind. The whole idea of physicality is wired into our mind as a functional offspring of our mind, otherwise the physical world is nonexistent. It is in your mind that your physical human body exists, and outside your mind, your body ceases to exist.

In fact, it is correct to describe the entire creation as a mind game and when we do, the question of sexual immorality becomes, “to which sex rule of this mind-game (or created world) am I subscribing?” It’s normal for a mind-game (or created world) to be governed by some rules but those rules must be relatively operable from within each mind and where the rule becomes a form of cage, minds will break out of it. The definition of sexually immorality can’t be right if it obstructs your freewill or the freewill of others; rape is the first and foremost act of sexual misconduct. For in raping a person, the rapist disrespects the privacy and invades the sovereignty of the victim. It’s no longer a fair game if someone doesn’t want to play in it but the fellow is being compelled to keep sweating it. This is what rapists do. They force their game on you and impose their energetic field on you, thus rape is sexually immoral. Putting rape into perspective, consider that the rooster is always forcing itself into having sex with the hen. The rooster chases the hen around until he grabs her by the neck, rapes her and after ejaculating, he walks away. Can you judge this matter?

Sex cannot be separated from the individual’s mind. The rooster doesn’t consider it immoral forcing his sexual energy on the hen. He is merely demonstrating his maleness. The hen however has her own way of rejecting such sexual pranks when it’s coming from an immature rooster and what does she do, she attacks the immature rooster, beating him away. Now, the human mind we agree, is much more advanced than the mind of a chicken. We carry a consciousness of what we want and of what we do not want which altogether makes us accountable for whatever we do and makes us responsible for whatever we allow to happen. Your sexual choices should thus be made by you and that decision must be made as clearly as you see fit. Only you have the full rights to your human body because your physical human body is a product of your personal mind, this is quite true even if you don’t yet understand how it is true that your body is only existing within your mind.

You must carry your body with the understanding, “my body is an extension of my mind while my mind is an expression of my spiritual state which makes my body a physicalized bundle of my life’s energy”. Before getting into any form of sexual act with whoever it is, consider the energy you’re taking into your heart because your heart is the storage center of your spiritual self, if you put someone’s energy into your heart, it stays there for a while or forever until you do something with it. Also pay attention to the energy you’re giving out to the other, making sure of its quality.

Sex is a Kiss at the Center of your Body

If the energy isn’t loving and true enough, don’t even bother taking it in nor should you give it out to anyone. If you do, you’re violating yourself and the other person, this energetic violation of yourselves would be sexual immorality even if you are married to each other. For eons, men have used their sexual prowess to subdue, plunder and damage women on this planet while there is also a crop of women who pride themselves in being able to use their “bottom power” or sexuality to gain advantage over all men. These sexed up battles are bad-energy transactions.

Sexual immorality therefore has nothing to do with who you choose to have sex with, where you choose to have it, or when you choose to have it. Instead, it is about why and how you choose to have it. Your intent, the state of your heart before, during and after the sexual act is very vital to how immoral or moral it is. You don’t have the right to have sex in a way that ruptures the energy grid of the human family and this is not the same as saying, “don’t have sex in ways unapproved by society”. You do not need anyone’s approval other than the approval of the fellow with whom you’re having that sex and the approval of your own heart. This is basic and true. If two or more persons have established a sexual agreement, no one else has the right nor duty to disrupt that collective energetic contract, except in cases where the agreement directly or indirectly violates the living energy of others. If they chose to have sex inside their car, it is no one’s business but if that car is parked in a public place, it becomes the business of those who may see them in the act. Your intention and the impact of your action must not conflict with the existence of other persons.

No one feels violated watching the roosters play catch-up with the hens, but with humans getting sexual in public places, people may feel violated and so we shouldn’t ever have to do that for the sake of our fellow humans. If we seek to have public sex, we may devote a community to it such that we won’t have to worry about violating anyone. When we do create such an open-sex community, it doesn’t matter what them moralists say about it because by our agreement, we have sealed it up and no sane law could ever be broken by our communal agreement. Now within this imaginary community, sexual immorality isn’t because we’re having sex in public, it may however be because we are having sex with bad or shady intents. Sex, like communication could be a public affair if it weren’t already made private by years of psychological programming and social conditioning. If you wish to have public sex today, it is better done within such places where everyone has agreed to it. Otherwise, you’re violating the privacy and the disinterestedness of others. Sexual immorality is about how much considerations you have given to yourself, your sexual partner(s) and to whoever else may be affected by it on the planet. Judged this way, sexual immorality becomes a question of loving my neighbor as myself and of giving consideration to the energetic vibe that I’m throwing out into the universe.

(Conclusively)

We could go and on with many other sexual scenarios but it’s best to keep it cool here and let you apply this wise blueprint with your private or corporate sex life. And where you have questions, we are willing to shed some light. Cheers.

Friends from Forever

In the name of Her Majesty, the Mother