Motherhood (Mirror of Motive) MoM — Test Motherhood Mirror Test Motherhood Mirror Test “What Kind of Future Are You Building Through Your Sons and Daughters?” A soul-revealing questionnaire for sincere mothers. Instructions Answer truthfully. No one will see your answers, but your soul will. This is not about guilt or shame — it’s about reflection and love. By being sincere in this test, you prove your love for your child. Choose one of the following for each statement: True False 🔹 Section A: How You See Your Son 1. I feel a deep need to protect my son from the world, even when he’s old enough to stand alone. True False 2. I feel safer when my son is emotionally close to me than when he seeks independence. True False 3. Deep down, I would prefer that my son always consults me before making life-changing decisions — even as an adult. True False 4. When my son shows strength or dominance, I feel proud. When he shows vulnerability, I feel uncomfortable. True False 5. I often dream of my son becoming powerful, successful, or admired by others, more than I dream of his inner peace or freedom. True False 6. I get upset or secretly jealous when another woman (his wife/girlfriend) becomes his closest bond. True False 7. I sometimes compare my son to his father — whether to praise or criticise — in ways that affect how I raise him. True False 8. I want my son to protect me emotionally, even if he’s still a child or a teen. True False 9. I have used my son to meet emotional needs I didn’t get from his father or other men. True False 10. I silently want my son to make up for a man who failed me, or to become the man I never had. True False 🔹 Section B: How You See Your Daughter 11. I see my daughter as a reflection of me, and I often want her to avoid the mistakes I made. True False 12. I project high standards of behaviour, success, or womanhood onto her, even if I didn’t meet them myself. True False 13. I subconsciously compete with my daughter’s beauty, attention, or opportunities. True False 14. I worry about how my daughter makes me look in front of others. True False 15. I have raised her with a fear of men, either directly or indirectly, through my stories or actions. True False 16. I want my daughter to marry a man who provides, even if I also raise her to be independent. True False 17. I often expect her to obey out of fear or obligation, not out of love or understanding. True False 18. I make her feel that she owes me her success, her love, or her loyalty — as if I own her future. True False 19. I sometimes shame my daughter when she expresses desires or questions I’m not comfortable with. True False 20. I have judged or punished my daughter for traits I secretly have but hide from others. True False 🔹 Section C: Parenting & Control 21. My children owe me their obedience because I gave them life and raised them. True False 22. I use guilt, tears, or sacrifice stories to control how my children treat me. True False 23. I am more interested in raising children who impress society than children who are healed, conscious, and free. True False 24. I talk about love, but I control through fear, expectation, and shame. True False 25. I expect loyalty from my children, but I rarely reflect on whether I’ve earned their trust. True False 26. I do not apologise to my children when I’m wrong, because I believe being a parent makes me right. True False 27. I have punished my children for expressing the truth that made me uncomfortable. True False 28. I rarely ask myself whether I’m raising my child for their true path or to fulfil my unhealed dreams. True False 29. I do not take seriously the idea that I might emotionally manipulate my children, because I “mean well”. True False 30. I want my children to make me proud, more than I want them to be free. True False 🧾 Final Step Submit & Download